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Maybe you could send her an e-mail or something asking her what she thinks of you and all that. Just a suggestion. :)
Permalink | November 22, 2009, 4:40 pm |
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Quoting Mario Kart Master
I need someone to talk to. I am feeling afraid. Afraid of losing the one I love. Her name is Kristin. I am not going to see her much anymore, because me and my family left our church. God came to my dad and said we need to find another place. My parents were the worship leaders and I was the sound guy.
Kristin is the pastor's oldest daughter and that place was the only time I see her. I had a vision from God in the second friday of june this year, showing my future with Kristin. We were getting married. I was getting ready to say my vows when God said, "You are ment for each other. You shall never leave her, never hurt her, and always love her." then My vision ended.
I told her that I love her, but she never said anything back about it. I feel like she doesn't want me. I'm like a shadow on the wall, or a fading memory. My heart wants to be with her and my mind, but I don't know what she thinks. I feel like my life is falling apart now, and I keep dreaming that she and I will be together, and kiss for the first time.
Please, help me what to do. God hasn't revealed anything to me yet, but I'm still waiting from Him. In the mean time, tell me anything of what to do. Thanks.
Well, I don't have an immediate solution for you, but I would advise you to pray about the situation and seek God's will (as in all things).
I prayed for you when I read this, and will continue doing so.
If you need someone to talk to, feel free to email me at mythica_master9@yahoo.com
Permalink | November 23, 2009, 2:19 am |
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Quoting Mario Kart Master
I... I love you man.(as a friend) Well, I'll see what will happen. Besides, my life ISN'T over and I keep praying to God. I need an answer. I'll wait for it.
Often in situations like these, the time God appoints is not the same as the time we would personally prefer. Often times we are not ready (though we may feel we are). Just keep praying, keep steady in your faith, and God will reveal His divine plan in His own time. And then, you'll be glad you waited.
- Peace.
Permalink | November 24, 2009, 7:40 pm |
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when I am down, I think of my friends (mostly guys, except one girl who I talked 1 post about. She is really nice, smart, and pretty:) )
Permalink | November 24, 2009, 9:40 pm |
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and she's a good Christian too! I also might advise finding a way to meet up with her.
Permalink | November 24, 2009, 9:41 pm |
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Quoting Walter "Sand Raider" Bryan
when I am down, I think of my friends
Yeah, I often think of "what would one of my wiser friends say in this situation" when faced with a tense situation or tough decision.
The fact that I have a talent to analyze and (in some cases) predict speech/behavior patterns makes it that much easier for me to make an educated guess at what they'd say.
Permalink | November 24, 2009, 10:03 pm |
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Quoting Mario Kart Master
Hey guys? This is it. She's gone. (cries).....
I feel like she's not in me anymore. I keep asking God to show me a way, but I've given up. Besides, she will not love me cause I know, and she wants older guys. Not me cause I'm the same age, a little unresponsible, and may have some thing about me. Why don't everybody pray for me. I really need it. Thanks.
I feel your pain, brother. I've had 2 ladies previously (not at the same time) that I was in love with and that I thought for sure I was destined to marry, and neither of those relationships worked out.
Anyway, stay strong - I'll keep praying for you, bro!
Permalink | December 1, 2009, 8:55 pm |
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Quoting Mario Kart Master
The party was canceled for unknown reasons, and I believe she will not love me and I can't live without her. If she goes, my life is over. What is left for me? I'm not thinking about suicide, because its stupid. Just... help me.
It is... the... end.
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I'm really not sure what to say, except that I'll continue praying for you.
Permalink | December 6, 2009, 4:42 pm |
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Quoting Mario Kart Master
Will you guys please answer? Please?
Dude, just to let you know I'm not any love guru. But Maybe you should just move on in life. you will probably find another girl later. And always, keep praying.:)
Permalink | December 8, 2009, 6:30 pm |
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You have my condolences, mario cart master. perhaps now would be a good time to comfort Kristin is this deep loss
Permalink | December 9, 2009, 8:47 pm |
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Quoting Mario Kart Master
Hey guys? (crying while writing this) Kristin's dad just died. Heart attack.
I'll pray for her family too now, and the church also (you mentioned her dad was the pastor).
Also what Markster said.
Permalink | December 10, 2009, 11:50 am |
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Quoting Mario Kart Master
Hey guys? (crying while writing this) Kristin's dad just died. Heart attack.
I'm not a proffesional, but trying to take a little bit of advantage of these hard times might turn out good, but it could be a disaster. She might think that you can be a good friend in hard times, but she can also think that you are just some strange guy who's trying to get her attention, while she's trying to process her grief.
I really don't want to make the situation even harder for you, but I want to prevent another disaster. Sometimes, life sucks. In the Netherlands we've got a saying [approximate translation]: "there's always a light at the end of a dark tunnel" God decides how long it takes for you to reach that light, but he'll always guide you through the darkness. I'll pray for you...
Permalink | December 11, 2009, 10:58 am |
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look, MArio MAster, your taking this WAY too far. SHE IS JUST A HUMAN BEING. chill out. you will live. Focus on school, get good grades. your too young to think about stuff like this. She doesn't even like you. That dream could not have been from God, either. Think about starting a family after grad school. You'll meet lots of girls mabye better than Kristin.
Permalink | December 13, 2009, 6:50 pm |
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Quoting Mario Kart Master
To continue the above comment, I just found out that Kristin hates me. What I believed was a lie. My whole life is a lie. You can stop praying for me, but pray for Kristin. She needs it more that I do. I am dead inside. My heart has stopped.(the love inside of it) And I feel... pain. You guys did help, but not as much as I hoped for. Now, I will live in the shadows. Be to myself. Waiting to die. I'm not on drugs or alchihol, but mentally. I am despreate for her. I made a promise that will be with her. But she threw it away. God has called me to be with her, and I STILL believe it. But that hope is fading fast. I will retire from this site. I feel what's the point. It's just a site. No-one likes me. I feel alone. So... I'll miss you. Please... h... hel... p... me.
MKM, like the other guys said, you've got friends on this site, myself included.
Honestly, I'm not really good at giving advice on "heart" issues (relationships, love, family, etc.), and what advice I can give is usually based more in logic and rationale than emotion, so some people misinterpret that as being cold and callous.
Permalink | December 14, 2009, 2:30 pm |
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Quoting Mario Kart Master
I am not leaving EVER! I also thought that this will only have like 3 or 4 comments, not 30+! I will post a MOC later today. It is a Christmas theme. It will be my best work.
Glad you cheered up, bro! Looking forward to seeing the new MOC! :)
Permalink | December 14, 2009, 5:18 pm |
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I have. I like it.
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