From the Bride: To answer the questions: It does look like us in that I am blond and will have an up-do and he is a darker blond, (so that was the best Lego option for his hair I'm told.)
He doesn't have a pattern, he just kind of made a prototype, checked with me on the height, general shape and then switched out parts. (And justified two large orders from Brinklink in the process)
Last comment: you should have see the chest with the Lego pieces with the stud in the middle. Distracting!